Seasons Season Seasons
What we carry forward has a way of shaping what comes next. A reflection on seasons.
Stephen J Cilento
2/25/20262 min read
A phrase once stayed with me longer than I expected.
“Seasons, season seasons.”
I first heard it years ago from a friend. At the time, it felt clever — a play on words memorable enough to repeat in conversation.
But over time, it began to feel heavier than that.
Every year moves through its cycles. Some sharp and distinct. Others subtle enough that we barely notice the shift. In some places, winter feels dramatic and decisive. In others, it’s only a slight cooling of the air.
But even the mildest change reshapes what follows.
After months of heat, cooler air feels refreshing. After long stretches of cool weather, warmth feels welcome. What we’ve just endured alters how we receive what comes next.
The previous season adjusts our appetite for the next one.
Life moves the same way.
There are seasons we enter with intention — new roles, new commitments, new responsibilities. And there are seasons that arrive uninvited — loss, transition, recalibration.
Some stretch longer than we expected. Some pass before we fully understand what they were teaching.
But none of them leave us unchanged.
The difficulty is not avoiding hard seasons. It’s deciding what we carry out of them.
Bitterness can be carried forward. So can gratitude.
Fatigue can shape the next season. So can discipline.
We do not move into the next chapter empty-handed. We bring something with us — whether we are aware of it or not.
That is what it means to say seasons season seasons.
What we allow to take root in one season will flavor the next.
Growth rarely feels dramatic while it is happening. It feels repetitive. Ordinary. Sometimes exhausting.
But refinement often works quietly.
A long season of responsibility can produce steadiness.
A season of uncertainty can produce clarity.
A season of rebuilding can produce patience.
Time has a way of revealing what each season was shaping in us — but only if we pay attention.
Faith has taught me that no season is wasted. Not the long ones. Not the uncomfortable ones. Not even the ones I would not have chosen.
Each carries the possibility of forming something durable.
And durability matters.
We do not get to choose every season we walk through. But we do get to choose what we carry forward.
And that is often enough.
The next season will come.
The question is what will flavor it.
-S
